Who are you to me?
I think the idea of giving an opinion about someone else's personality or behavior is more about us than the person. When I say that someone is very charming or moody or polite or ...... it's all about which version of that person found its way to interact with me and make me feel a certain way. Interestingly, when I find myself in a connecting moment with someone, the prospect of having a long-term relationship with that person piques me to search for a better version of myself to represent. On the other hand, if it's like a one-time communion, I let my mind and mood of that moment find the representable version of me. Something to think about further...🤔